Make your Relationship Work
It takes two people for a relationship to work. By extension, it also takes two people to make a relationship last. When you are in a relationship, you need to play your part as an equal partner and not a third party. You have to have a sense of belonging. You need to show your spouse that she matters to you.
Without respect, no relationship can ever last. You need to make sure that you associate with your spouse in a manner that shows appreciation and a deeply-seated sense of appreciation. You have to keep trying to speak nicely to him even when you don’t feel like it.